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Part 3 — How to Praise and Encourage…

boy_face_cartoon_clip_art_23099…outer and inner children! I hope that by now you have mastered this business of being a good, empathetic, sympathetic parent, manager, coach, teacher to people, and most importantly to¬†and outer and inner children in your life :)! This is THE most important role for anybody to master, so as a reader of this blog do yourself proud and change the old thinking. Love yourself, and praise others! ūüôā

(Please know this is the third and¬†LAST post¬†in the series of ‘How to Praise and Encourage a Child’ — if you missed the first two parts, please see them first. Each has 15 correct and appropriate expressions¬†to use. You’ll find them in the categories ‘Soul Soup’ and ‘Our Health’.)¬†

imagesBelow are 15 more ways to express love to the children in your life, both INNER and outer!

1. Super Star!

2. Now you’re flying!

3. You’re incredible!

4. Hurray for you!

5. Dynamite!

6. You’re fabulous / beautiful / you’re looking great!

7. That’s absolutely correct!

8. You’re a winner!

smiling_girl_face_clip_art_187939. Remarkable job!

10. Yeah! Magnificent!

11. I’m impressed!

12. You’re so caring!

13. You’re important!

14. You’re outstanding!

15. I love you!

Did it sink in yet? Praise the outer and inner children as much as you can. NEVER, NEVER, NEVER shame them—give them more, and more,¬†chances to shine!

And hey ūüôā — You’re my sunshine ūüôā

 

Part 2 — How to Praise and Encourage…

…a Child! Now that you have developed some¬†expertise in encouraging and praising a child, INCLUDING YOUR OWN CHILD PARTS :), helping them to bloom, blossom and have high self-esteem, here are some more ways¬†to do it!

untitledHere are 15 more examples of appropriate language and expressions, to use for this purpose!

1. How nice

2. That’s incredible

3. Much better

4. Spectacular

5. You’re precious

6. You’re a darling

7. Atta boy / Atta girl

8. Hip, hip hurray

9. Phenomenal

10. You’re important

11. You’re sensational

12. You’re fun

13. What an imagination

14. You tried hard

15. I trust you!

imagesAnd, once MORE — say these to the children you come in contact with, AND ESPECIALLY YOUR INNER CHILDREN, who need to hear this FIRST…because if you get comfortable with saying it to your INNER CHILDREN you will spontaneously be able to say it to all children!

AND DON’T FORGET: The pat on the back (on your own back¬†too), A big hug (to yourself too), A thumbs-up sign and a wink (to yourself), A warm smile (a smile of satisfaction, for yourself)!

Hey :)…HOT DOG :))) — you’re doin’ good, Kid ūüôā

 

How to Praise and Encourage a Child :)

smiling_girl_face_clip_art_18793Not all parents, mentors, coaches and leaders know the right way to help a child bloom and blossom, and develop their self-esteem. Some even¬†believe¬†that too much praise can be bad. This would beg the question, how much praise is too much praise? But without worrying about ‘how much’ it is more important to use the right language of praise¬†at the right time. Here are 15 examples of appropriate praise that will go straight¬†to a child’s heart — be sure¬†that it is sincere and from YOUR heart¬†:)!

1. Wow

2. Way to go

3. Super

4. I knew you could do it

5. Fantastic

6. Bravo

7. You’re so¬†smart

8. Good job

9. I like what you do/did

10. Beautiful work

11. I appreciate your help

12. Super work / You’re very creative

13. You’re terrific

14. You’re a real trooper

15. You’re so thoughtful

ALSO: A pat on the back, A big hug, A kiss, A thumbs-up sign, A warm smile, A smile and a secret wink in public.

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And NOW, a MOST IMPORTANT part!!! No matter how old we get, inside each and everyone of us is A CHILD PART who did not receive enough¬†praise, or even if he/she did, it may not have been¬†at an appropriate time…and it’s very possible that this child part receives no praise any more. So, PLEASE, praise your child part at¬†EVERY possible¬†opportunity. Say one or more of¬†the above to yourself every time you feel you deserve¬†some praise — and we all deserve SOME praise EACH DAY! ūüôā

Hey, YOU’RE A TREASURE :))) — and I mean it from my heart! <3